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duis

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2011-02-08 15-14-24

Very intriqued by the D/s relationship... and would like to know more. Not sure where to start my questions, so what is the attraction for the D? for the s?
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2011-02-11 6-20-24-

hmm, very ambiguous question to try and answer. as a sub, I like to please and help. But I like to please and help Him, not just anyone. My pleasure comes from me seeing Him pleased, Him liking what is happening, Him enjoying the moment. It also carries over to some other aspects for me, like serving His food, running Him a bath...little things like that. Specifiy for me, though, I dont want it to be something within the traditionalism aspect of societal thinking. I do like to serve Him in the every day life (as permitted by our times together) but I love it when He helps around. I guess with me, it is more about the sexual activities being related to D/s rather than a 24/7 lifestyle. Furthermore, I love it when He and i acknowledge He is my Master and that I am His pet. It is that sense of belonging to Him that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. :)
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lizzy

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2011-02-12 20-57-18

I really relate to the wanting to please. There's just something inside that makes me feel so inadequate when I'm not pleasing him. I do feel it is all about his pleasure.
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Lorilyn

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2011-02-13 2-50-37-

I am not a sub. But I do enjoy being submissive. :) I know that probably sounds a little confusing but it is a role I play on occasion for kinky sex. It is not who I am in my relationship. Thats how I define it for my own personal experience. What is the attraction for me? I would say primarily it is the giving over of myself. The trust the is required in order for me to be that vulnerable and to allow him to make desicions for me. Knowing that I am pleasing him is huge also. That I am his to use for his pleasure. Wether he chooses to be gentle, or rough. Wether he wants to fuck my pussy, my ass or my mouth. Wether he wants to force or deny my orgasms. I love being there for him in that way. Now I also have strong fantasies and desires to be more dominant as well. To be in control. To have him place that much trust in me. To have him be there solely for my pleasure. Seems awfully fucking hot to me. But that is not something he wants. :) Good topic.
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2011-02-22 18-36-37

Hm. Rotten huh? Care to tell me why?
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2011-02-27 7-53-00-

Rotten? Why I'm asking or why I feel that I do?
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  • putman

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    2011-03-26 1-25-41-

    No no hun. the minus x rating on my post. -x is "rotten" apparently and Im just wondering what was rotten about my post. Not you :)
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    reitzel

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    2011-07-03 21-35-04

    Very good post... I also enjoy being submissive, But I would not consider myself as submissive x/x. I know it seems to be a common theme among a lot of folks that are into BDSM - the paradox, and I guess I would consider myself this way as well. The attraction for me is simply the handing over of control, having so much trust in someone and then ultimately pleasing him by submitting. It's not even all about the sex to me. I like the security, the closeness, the comfort it brings. I feel I need someone to control me, to save me from myself. I really long for a true D/s relationship for many reasons, I just think it would fulfill many things in my life and complete me.
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  • rembold

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    2011-08-10 2-00-31-

    the attraction for me is feeling at peace with myself my relationship with my Dom is easy and natural
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  • allmon

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    2011-08-20 13-44-17

    There are so many attractions First, the physical. I like sensation. There is a huge variety of sensation in D/s play. Then there is knowing the amount of thought and planning a D must put into a scene for me. I like knowing my partner is thinking about me when I am not there, and having proof of that. Some women like flowers, I like coming home to spanking implements and bondage equipment laid out for me (flowers are nice sometimes, too). It's the THOUGHT that counts, in other words. I like giving pleasure, and that can mean giving myself over to someone who uses my body for their physical or mental pleasure, or actively providing some kind of service. I like it because it's fun to play and to explore. I like the way it teaches me what my body is capable of withstanding. I like it because I don't fear dark emotion, and embrace the catharsis of being brought to tears, and how learning to deal w/ discomfort and pain in a D/s context can help me overcome fears and problems in other areas of my life. I like taking care of my partner, anticipating their needs and making sure they are met. D/s makes this easy because the Dom, in my experience, tells you exactly what they want. How many relationships do we have where we know exactly what is expected of us, and are then praised when we meet or exceed those expectations (outside of say, school)? I like being nurtured and cared for. I like being the focus of his or her attention. I like the way communication has to open up to play deeply, and the way that ability to communicate effectively ripples out into other aspects of the relationship.
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  • sincavage

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    2011-09-28 8-13-14-

    Don't think I could have said it better.
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    Elmira

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    2011-12-30 12-17-49

    I've never seen it stated this way "I like it because I don't fear dark emotion, and embrace the catharsis of being brought to tears, and how learning to deal w/ discomfort and pain in a D/s context can help me overcome fears and problems in other areas of my life." Send me an email with what you would care to share, I'm mostly interested in the last part after the "D/s context" text. Elaborate if you will. Thanks if you do. I'm as dark as you are, I don't need a name or any personal info. I'm curious about your mind. I just want to hear your thoughts.
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    2012-01-10 15-40-14

    Thanks ladies, lots to think about :)
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