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guerrero

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2011-02-08 16-48-18

A Woman's Perspective Please.... This is a bit of an odd post because I'm a guy and my wife recently indicated that certain types of women turn her on and that she has this fantasy about sex with a woman. I've always had the fantasy about her being seduced, just never thought about a woman. Since she revealed this interest a couple weeks ago, I've noticed her looking at woman a bit differently and subtle things like that. In example, she has told me and I know she really likes the strong but feminine type and is not attracted to the butch type. I'm very open minded to trying new things, but as a guy who has known lesbians somewhat, I'm scared to death that she will like women more than guys and I will lose her. To fuel my worries is my experience with lesbian acquaintances who openly show disdain or aggression toward guys and I think would like to convert her. Most of these women that I know have been married and after the divorce have sworn off men. My wife has been told by our lesbian friends that she would be very popular in the lesbian world because she is a fit and good looking Asian....low 40's. My wife has told me this several times...hmmmm... When she told me about her interest in women I told her about all of my concerns. I even told her after a few days of thought that it would be ok with me if it were something we could do together or I would have to be kept fully informed about everything. She indicated that she would probably chicken out if she met someone she is attracted to and she is concerned about doing anything outside of marriage. Actually, she might indeed chicken out because I've noticed that she kind of freezes when she is talking to a good looking woman. I've also noticed that she keeps talking about her lesbian friends and their girlfriends and etc. Her bedroom fantasy talk that she initiates is about sex with other people too. I guess my questions are....are my fears about her discovering that she is a lesbian legitimate? Can my wife be both married and be bi? Should I encourage her sexual exploration under certain conditions? Are there women out there that I can trust that would just like to seduce her, but not want a significant relationship? Am I an idiot for even thinking about this?
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    2011-02-20 13-51-47

    Would you encourage her to have sex with another man? If yes, then ok. If no, then you probably want a monogamus relationship and wouldn't want to enourage her to sleep with someone else.
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    I was going to add that his wife should find a guy to bend her husband over and make him his bitch, but that would have been insensitive.
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    Interesting.... Well, even though I might be considered very vanilla to you, I am considering options here... ya know...expanding the possibilities.... I just don't want to do something stupid...that is why I'm asking the questions... Just writing it out helps me to clarify some of my thoughts on the subject too. I love all the responses too. Thanks Kim and every ..
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    2012-07-23 21-18-20

    Sigh... If I thought gay sex was a lot hotter than heterosexual encounters I'd be hanging out at gay bars all day long. My gay friends don't seem to have any trouble finding partners...and my gay acquaintences/friends are a lot more intellectually fun than straight guys. Being straight but knowing a lot of gay and lesbians, I am very concious of the biological factor that is involved. I am also aware of the social conditioning that may have led to lesbian and gay people to get married in the first place. I know where my biological gender leanings are. Its my wife's biological/gender leanings that is of issue to me. Sure it turns me on to see her sexually alive and excited. Her fantasies about other people turns me on and I share in those fantasies. It is her that told me about her desires for women. This is not something that appealed to me before, but as she is talking about it, I could see myself accepting it and even getting some vicarious excitement. I'm not the type to hold anyone back from trying new things, except where the risk of loss is so huge. To me, love is giving but I must admit that I'm also thinking about myself. Basiy, I'm learning from some of the posters here that I have only my own interest to serve and protect. I should not lose sight of that....
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    I think the person who asked if you'd... ...mind her sleeping with another guy was on target. Ask yourself if you can accept your wife being physiy, emotionally & intimately engaged with a third party. If you think the answer is yes, rent "Indecent Proposal" and "Sex Monster" and watch them with your wife then discuss the ramifications. You may both change your minds.
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    2012-11-02 12-00-22

    uhm... well... let me just ignore your man-hating lesbian rant, and address your questions: x. no. she doesn't want to be a lesbian. lesbian sex turns her on. there's a difference. x. marriage is a committment betweenpeople. "bi" is a sexual orientation. you can be both, but I think you're implying that you can be a 'swinger' and married, and well... that's something that youhave to decide. x. that's up to you, but few people can get away with having an open marriage - it takes a lot of trust & communication, and I'm guessing that this marriage might not have much of either. x. you're married to your wife, not 'other women' - the question is really: can YOU trust your WIFE? x. yes. you're probably going to be divorced within the nextyears.
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